Pain Tolerance
Jan 05, 2025 9:43 am
It’s always surprising how many talented UX professionals stay stuck in roles they hate or job-hunt strategies that don’t work.
I know designers with stunning portfolios who haven’t landed an interview in months.
I’ve met UX researchers with 10 years of experience earning less than a junior designer.
And it’s often not because they lack skill or ambition.
It’s because they have high pain tolerance.
As UX professionals, we’re used to dealing with:
• Hiring managers ghosting us.
• Applications that disappear into the void.
• Endless rejections and vague feedback.
• Burnout from chasing opportunities that go nowhere.
We tell ourselves it’s just part of the process.
But here’s the thing: Pain tolerance isn’t always a good thing.
Sometimes it tricks you into thinking you’re playing the long game, when you’re actually playing the wrong game.
I learned this lesson the hard way.
I used to spend hours applying for jobs, tweaking my portfolio, and attending every networking event I could find.
But then I noticed something:
The people landing six-figure roles weren’t applying to 100+ jobs.
They were building connections with 10 decision-makers.
They weren’t creating endless case studies for their portfolios.
They were sending one tailored Minimum Valuable Pitch to the right person.
They weren’t playing the same game I was.
And that’s when I realized: I wasn’t just enduring pain—I was enduring the wrong pain.
The right kind of pain hurts, but it gets you results.
• It’s reaching out to decision-makers and facing rejection.
• It’s refining your pitch until it finally lands.
• It’s spending time crafting a plan that solves real problems for hiring managers.
The wrong kind of pain doesn’t get you anywhere.
• It’s sending out 100 applications and hearing nothing back.
• It’s working on a perfect portfolio that no one sees.
• It’s tweaking your resume for hours instead of focusing on what really matters.
Pain tolerance can keep you stuck. But the right strategy sets you free.
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Stop tolerating the wrong kind of pain. Let’s get you moving toward your dream UX job.
Cheers,
Joseph
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