Finding Balance When Life Feels Like a Circus 🎪

Jan 14, 2025 3:11 pm

Finding Balance When Life Feels Like a Circus 🎪

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Okay, real talk—balance is one of those things everyone talks about but few people seem to master. And honestly? For a long time, I thought it was a myth. I mean, how can you possibly balance all the things—running a business, taking care of your family, and maybe even having a little fun? (What’s that again?)


But here’s what I’ve learned: balance isn’t about perfection. It’s not about dividing your time equally between work and life or checking every box on your to-do list. It’s about giving yourself permission to focus on what matters most right now and letting the rest wait.


What Balance Really Means

Balance doesn’t mean juggling every ball perfectly—it means figuring out which ones you can drop (hint: most of them are rubber, not glass). It’s about:


  • Prioritizing what truly matters and not apologizing for it.
  • Setting boundaries that protect your time, energy, and sanity.
  • Letting go of guilt when you can’t do it all.
  • Making space for rest so you can actually enjoy this life you’re building.

It’s not about hustling harder; it’s about living smarter.


Why Balance Is Essential for Your Business (and Sanity)

1. You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup

Burnout isn’t a badge of honor—it’s a business killer. When you prioritize balance, you give yourself the energy to show up fully.

2. It Makes You More Present

When you’re balanced, you’re not half-listening to your family while stressing about work—or vice versa. You’re fully there, wherever you are.

3. It Sets the Tone for Everyone Else

Boundaries aren’t just good for you—they show your clients and collaborators that you value your time and theirs. And trust me, they’ll respect you more for it.


My Balancing Act (Spoiler: It’s Messy)

Let me tell you, balance has not always been my strong suit. There was a time when I said yes to everything. Late-night client emails, projects I wasn’t excited about, even sacrificing family time for work deadlines.


And guess what? It didn’t make me more successful. It made me exhausted and resentful.


It wasn’t until I started setting real boundaries—turning off my computer at a certain time, scheduling breaks, and actually protecting my weekends—that things started to shift.


Was it hard at first? Oh, yeah. I had to get over the guilt of not being available 24/7. But here’s the kicker: my clients didn’t leave. My business didn’t collapse. And I felt more focused, more creative, and more present than ever.


How to Create Balance That Works for You

Balance isn’t one-size-fits-all, but here’s what’s worked for me:


1. Decide What Matters

What are your top priorities—this week, this month, this season? Write them down and let them guide your decisions.

2. Set Boundaries and Stick to Them

Whether it’s no work after 5 PM or taking weekends completely off, boundaries only work if you enforce them.

3. Don’t Work Sick

Let’s normalize this, okay? You’re not a machine. If your body is telling you to rest, listen. Showing up at half-capacity doesn’t serve you or your business.

4. Embrace Imperfection

Some weeks will feel like a circus, and that’s okay. Balance isn’t about every day being perfect; it’s about the big picture.

5. Schedule Downtime

If it’s not on your calendar, it won’t happen. Block out time for things that recharge you—reading, exercise, or just doing nothing.

6. Say No Without Guilt

Your time is precious. Protect it by saying no to what doesn’t align with your priorities.


Balance Isn’t About Doing More—It’s About Doing What Matters

Here’s the truth: balance isn’t about fitting everything in—it’s about making room for the things that light you up. And when you prioritize what matters most, you’ll find that everything else has a way of falling into place. 🌿


Next Stop: Vulnerability—Your Business’s Hidden Strength

Vulnerability often gets a bad rap, but it’s one of the most impactful ways to build trust, foster deep connections, and create a business that feels true to who you are.


In next week’s newsletter, we’ll explore how being open and authentic can strengthen relationships and set you apart in ways that truly matter. It’s about tapping into the power of your story and using it to connect with your audience in a meaningful way.


Stay tuned for fresh insights on how to embrace vulnerability without losing your edge.


Remember, life isn’t about doing it all—it’s about doing what matters.

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Stop Juggling Underpricing—Find Balance in Your Worth

Feeling like you’re constantly working but never seeing the rewards? It’s time to balance your expertise with the rates you deserve.

With Setting Your Rates Based on Value Self-Study Course, you’ll learn how to:

✔️ Set rates that reflect your true worth

✔️ Attract clients who respect your time and talent

✔️ Build a business that feels sustainable and rewarding

It’s more than just a course—it’s your first step toward a business that honors your balance and boundaries.


✨ Start Pricing with Confidence Today

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Spread the Balance! 🌿

Loved this newsletter? Don’t keep the balance to yourself—share it with your business besties! We all know someone who’s juggling a million things and could use a little harmony in their life and work. Forward this along and invite them to join the conversation about creating a business that doesn’t sacrifice what truly matters.

Until next time, stay grounded, stay focused, and remember—you’re doing great! 🌟



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If you’re enjoying these newsletters, stick around for more thoughtful tips, practical ideas, and tools to help you find balance while building the business (and life) you love.

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