It's easy to believe your ambition is setting you free, but often, the speed you move at is just obscuring the bars of your self-made cage. We keep adding goals and achievements, chasing a finish line that perpetually moves. This struggle is the tens...
Let me be direct.People pleasing is not kindness. It's cowardice disguised as generosity. Each time you betray yourself to make others comfortable, your spirit wilts a little bit. You say yes when you mean no. You adjust yourself to fit in. You swall...
You're holding onto the rock.That's why you're stuck. You're trying to control everything, defend your identity, make sure life goes according to your plan. And all the while, the river is trying to carry you. But you can't swim if you're holding ont...
You are not who you think you are.Let me say that again. You are not who you think you are. Your identity—your name, your beliefs, your preferences, all the things you like and dislike—that all comes together to form who you think yourself to be. But...
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You know what's making you exhausted?It's not the work. It's not the hours. It's that you're living two lives—the real one and the performed one. Every moment you spend being someone else is energy stolen from who you actually are. And the performanc...
You know that feeling when you're deep into something and hours disappear?Two hours playing a game feels like five minutes. But ten minutes in a boring meeting feels like four hours. Time warps. And here's why I'm bringing this up—it's showing you so...
Here's the thing about performing.Every moment you spend being someone else is energy stolen from who you actually are. The performance requires constant maintenance. And if you're exhausted right now, it's because you're living two lives—the real on...
You know that pattern. The one you keep repeating even though you know better. Even though you've analyzed it. Even though you've promised yourself a hundred times that this is the last time. And yet. Here you are again. The body loops before the...
We both wear masks. And then I ask—are you there? Not "are you awake." Not "you need to wake up." Just... are you there? It's a question. An honest one. Because the mask isn't something you put on intentionally. It's not like you woke up one day...